How to Succeed on Dating Apps: What No One Tells You (A Conversation Between a Photographer and a Psychologist)

At Lupu Agency we have been helping people who want to improve their profile on dating apps like Tinder, Bumble or Hinge. And one thing we have learned is that having good photos is much more than just "looking good". It's strategy, it's authenticity and, above all, it's connection.

That's why, in our quest to always offer the best possible solutions to our customers' needs, we are always looking for the best possible solutions.

As a result, we have initiated a series of talks with specialists to understand in depth what really works in the world of online dating.

Today we share with you a conversation between Nicoleta, a photographer specialised in portraits for dating apps, and G.G., a psychologist with extensive experience in emotional dynamics and digital attraction.

1. Why are photos so decisive?

Nicoleta (Lupu Agency):
G.G., you work with a lot of people who use dating apps... why can a good photo change everything?

G.G. (Psychologist):
Because in the dig environment

ital, the image is the first filter. People make decisions in seconds. It's not superficiality, it's biology: the brain scans for signals of security, sympathy, authenticity. A good photo not only shows how you look, but how you feel about yourself.

2. Is it better to look natural or to try to impress?

Nicoleta:
Sometimes people ask me if they should dress up or dress down, what do you think?

G.G.:
The key is to be authentic, but the best version of yourself. It's not about dressing up or looking like you would never look on a real date. But it is about taking care of the details: clean clothes, flattering colours, a relaxed expression. That conveys consistency between what you show and who you are.

3. What non-verbal signals are others looking for?

Nicoleta:
During the sessions I always try to capture natural expressions, a real smile, a lively look... Does that really influence how you are perceived?

G.G.:
Very much so. Micro-expressions are key. A forced smile or a blank stare is quickly noticed. On the other hand, when there is genuine energy in your expression, it triggers a positive emotional response in whoever sees you. You make them feel that they can trust you, that there is something genuine behind it.

4. What kind of photos connect emotionally?

Nicoleta:
I have noticed that when clients bring objects that represent them - a bike, a guitar, a camera - the photos come to life. Does that also have a psychological impact?

G.G.:
Of course. Accessories are not just decorative, they tell your story. They help whoever sees your profile to say: "I do that too" or "I'm interested in this". It's a non-verbal way of showing personality and hobbies, which are essential to generate connection.

5. What would you say to someone who feels insecure in front of the camera?

Nicoleta:
Some people are very nervous when they arrive at the session, how can they prepare themselves mentally to present themselves with confidence?

G.G.:
The first thing is to understand that it is not about perfection, but about authenticity. Sleeping well, avoiding alcohol the day before, practising expressions in front of the mirror... it all helps. But the most important thing is attitude: if you see the session as a fun experience, and not as a test, your body will feel it... and so will the camera.

Conclusion

Creating an attractive profile on dating apps is not a matter of luck. It's strategy, psychology and authenticity. When your image reflects who you really are, but with attention to detail, you attract the people who really fit you.

At Lupu Agency we don't just take beautiful pictures. We create portraits designed to help you connect from the first glance.

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